Sunan Abi Dawud

Hadith 3123

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Offering Condolences

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Darussalam · Volume 3

BOOK 20. THE BOOKOF FUNERALS

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الحديث: 3123 ¦ الجزء: 3 ¦ الصفحة: 192

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3123. It was narrated that 'Abdullāh bin 'Amr bin Al-'Āṣ said: "One day, we buried a deceased person with the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ, and when we had finished, the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ came back, and we came back with him. When he drew near his door, he stopped, and we saw a woman coming (towards him)." He said: "I think he recognized her, and when she reached him, we saw that it was Fātimah. The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said to her: 'What brought you out of your house, O Fātimah?' She said: 'I have come to the people of this house, O Messenger of Allāh, to pray for mercy for their deceased one, or to offer them condolences.' The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said to her: 'Perhaps you reached Al-Kuda (the graveyard) with them?' She said: 'Allāh forbid! I heard you say what you said about it.' He said: 'If you had reached the graveyard with them,' and he spoke stern words concerning that." (Al-Mufaḍḍal — one of the narrators said) "I asked Rabī'ah about Al-Kuda, he said: 'The graves, as far as I reckon.'" (Hasan)

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3123 - حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ خَالِدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَوْهَبٍ الْهَمْدَانِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا الْمُفَضَّلُ، عَنْ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ سَيْفٍ الْمَعَافِرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْحُبُلِىِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ، قَالَ: قَبَرْنَا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - يَعْنِي - مَيِّتًا فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا، انْصَرَفَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَانْصَرَفْنَا مَعَهُ، فَلَمَّا حَاذَى بَابَهُ وَقَفَ، فَإِذَا نَحْنُ بِامْرَأَةٍ مُقْبِلَةٍ، قَالَ: أَظُنُّهُ عَرَفَهَا فَلَمَّا ذَهَبَتْ، إِذَا هِيَ فَاطِمَةُ عَلَيْهَا السَّلَام، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «مَا أَخْرَجَكِ يَا فَاطِمَةُ مِنْ بَيْتِكِ؟»، فَقَالَتْ: أَتَيْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، أَهْلَ هَذَا الْبَيْتِ فَرَحَّمْتُ إِلَيْهِمْ مَيِّتَهُمْ أَوْ عَزَّيْتُهُمْ بِهِ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «فَلَعَلَّكِ بَلَغْتِ مَعَهُمُ الْكُدَى؟»، قَالَتْ: مَعَاذَ اللَّهِ، وَقَدْ سَمِعْتُكَ تَذْكُرُ فِيهَا مَا تَذْكُرُ، قَالَ: «لَوْ بَلَغْتِ مَعَهُمُ الْكُدَى» فَذَكَرَ تَشْدِيدًا فِي ذَلِكَ، فَسَأَلْتُ رَبِيعَةَ عَنِ الكُدَى؟ فَقَالَ: «الْقُبُورُ فِيمَا أَحْسَبُ»

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The Hadīth seems to suggest that it is unlawful for women to visit the graveyards. Some scholars, however, suggest that the interdiction belongs to the early days of Islam when people in general were prevented from visiting graveyards. But once the Prophet ﷺ gave his permission to visit, the permission covered men as well as women.