English translation
4052. Narrated Jābir رضي الله عنه: Allāh's Messenger ﷺ said to me, "Have you got married O Jābir?" I replied, "Yes." He asked "What, a virgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin) but a matron." He said, "Why did you not marry a young girl who would have fondled with you?" I replied, "O Allāh's Messenger! My father was martyred on the day (of the battle) of Uḥud and left nine (orphan) daughters who are my nine sisters; so I disliked to have another young girl of their age, but (I sought) an (elderly) woman who could comb their hair and look after them." The Prophet ﷺ said, "You have done the right thing."
