English translation
5247. Narrated Jābir bin 'Abdullāh رضي الله عنه: We were with the Prophet ﷺ in a Ghazwa, and when we returned and approached Al-Madīna, I wanted to hurry while riding a slow camel. A rider overtook me and pricked my camel with a spear which he had, whereupon my camel started running as fast as any other fast camel you may see. I looked back, and behold, the rider was Allāh's Messenger ﷺ. I said, "O Allāh's Messenger! I am newly married." He asked, "Have you got married?" I replied, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin) but a matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you would have played with her and she with you?" When we reached (near Al-Madīna) and were going to enter it, the Prophet ﷺ said, "Wait till you enter your home in the night i.e. at the time of Isha (prayer) so that the lady whose hair is unkempt may comb her hair and that the lady whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hair."
