One Who Arranges His Daughter's Marriage When She Is Unwilling
Darussalam · Volume 3
9. The Chapters On MarriageSunan Ibn Majah Darussalam English translation
الحديث: 1873 ¦ الجزء: 1 ¦ الصفحة: 602
Source no. 1873 · Volume 4 · Page 373
Sahih
صحيح، الإرواء (١٨٣٠) ، الروض النضير (٤٢٣)
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1873. 'Abdur-Rahmân bin Yazid Al-Ansâri and Mujamma' bin Yazid Al-Ansâri said that a man among them who was called Khidâm arranged a marriage for his daughter, and she did not like the marriage arranged by her father. She went to the Messenger of Allâh ﷺ and told him about that, and he annulled the marriage arranged by her father. Then she married Abu Lubâbah bin 'Abdul-Mundhir. (Sahih) (One of the narrators) Yahya mentioned that she was a previously-married woman.
1873 - حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ الْقَاسِمَ بْنَ مُحَمَّدٍ، أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ يَزِيدَ، وَمُجَمِّعَ بْنَ يَزِيدَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّيْنِ، أَخْبَرَاهُ: «أَنَّ رَجُلًا مِنْهُمْ يُدْعَى خِذَامًا أَنْكَحَ ابْنَةً لَهُ، فَكَرِهَتْ نِكَاحَ أَبِيهَا، فَأَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَذَكَرَتْ لَهُ، فَرَدَّ عَلَيْهَا نِكَاحَ أَبِيهَا» ، فَنَكَحَتْ أَبَا لُبَابَةَ بْنَ عَبْدِ الْمُنْذِرِ وَذَكَرَ يَحْيَى «أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ ثَيِّبًا»
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If the marriage of a previously-married woman is conducted against her consent, the marriage does take place; but she has the right to dissolve this marriage through the court. To avoid this unpleasant consequence, it is better to reach an agreed compromise beforehand. So the marriage should take place where the girl is happy, as well as the guardian having no objection.