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1612. It was narrated that Jarir bin 'Abdullâh Al-Bajali said: "We used to think that gathering with the family of the deceased and preparing food was a form of wailing." (Da'if)
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الحديث: 1612 ¦ الجزء: 1 ¦ الصفحة: 514
Source no. 1612 · Volume 4 · Page 112
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صحيح الأحكام (١٦٧) ، تخريج الإيمان لابن سلام (١٠٥)
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1612. It was narrated that Jarir bin 'Abdullâh Al-Bajali said: "We used to think that gathering with the family of the deceased and preparing food was a form of wailing." (Da'if)
1612 - حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، ح وحَدَّثَنَا شُجَاعُ بْنُ مَخْلَدٍ أَبُو الْفَضْلِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ أَبِي خَالِدٍ، عَنْ قَيْسِ بْنِ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ جَرِيرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْبَجَلِيِّ، قَالَ: «كُنَّا نَرَى الِاجْتِمَاعَ إِلَى أَهْلِ الْمَيِّتِ وَصَنْعَةَ الطَّعَامِ مِنَ النِّيَاحَةِ»
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An authentic way for condolence according to Sunnah is that whenever a person meets any relative of the deceased, he should express condolences or if one visits the family of the deceased, after consoling them, he should come back and should not sit there for a longer time without any necessity; it is against the Sunnah that the relatives and neighbors stay congregated for a long time.