Sunan an-Nasai

Hadith 3228

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For What Should A Woman Be Married?

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Darussalam · Volume 4

26. The Book Of Marriage

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الحديث: 3226 ¦ الجزء: 6 ¦ الصفحة: 65

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English translation

3228. It was narrated from Jābir that he married a woman at the time of the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ, and the Prophet ﷺ met him and said: "Have you got married, O Jābir? He said: 'Yes.' He said: 'A virgin or a previously-married woman?' I said: 'A previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin who would play with you?' I said: 'O Messenger of Allāh, I have sisters, and I did not want her to come between them and I.' He said: 'That's better then. A woman may be married for her religious commitment, her wealth or her beauty. You should choose the one who is religiously committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust(may you prosper).” (Ṣāḥih)

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3226 - أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَعِيلُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدٌ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، أَنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَلَقِيَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: «أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟» قَالَ: قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: «بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا» قَالَ: قُلْتُ: بَلْ ثَيِّبًا، قَالَ: «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُكَ»، قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، كُنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ، قَالَ: «فَذَاكَ إِذًا، إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ تُنْكَحُ عَلَى دِينِهَا، وَمَالِهَا، وَجَمَالِهَا، فَعَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ»

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    [1] They say that the meaning is that nobility is usually judged based upon wealth and treatment of it, where as honor is based upon Taqwa.

Commentary

“May your hands become dusty (Taribat Yadāk)”: Primarily this phrase is uttered to admonish, but it is sometimes spoken to express affection and compassion also. (According to the Arabic lexicographers, to say that a person’s hands became dirty, means “he became rich,” as though he became possessor of wealth equal to the dust of the earth (Turâb).