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A Man Marrying Off His Grown Up Daughter

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Darussalam · Volume 4

26. The Book Of Marriage

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الحديث: 3259 ¦ الجزء: 6 ¦ الصفحة: 83

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3261. 'Umar bin Al-Khaṭṭāb, may Allāh be pleased with him, narrated: "Hafṣah bint 'Umar became single when (her husband) Khunais bin Ḥudhāfah As-Sahmī (died). He was one of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ, and he died in Al-Madinah." 'Umar said: "I went to 'Uthmān bin 'Affān and offered Hafṣah in marriage to him. I said: 'If you wish, I will marry you to Hafṣah bint 'Umar.' He said: 'I will think about it.' A few days passed, then I met him and he said: 'It seems that I do not want to get married at the moment.” Umar said: “Then I met Abû Bakr Aş-Siddîq, may Allâh be pleased with him, and said: ‘If you wish, I will marry Hâfşah bint Umar to you.’ Abû Bakr remained silent, and did not give me any answer, and I felt more upset with him than I had with Uthmân. Several days passed, then the Messenger of Allâh ﷺ proposed marriage to her and I married her to him. Abû Bakr met me and said: ‘Perhaps you felt upset with me when you offered Hâfşah in marriage to me, and I did not give you any answer?’ I said: ‘Yes.’ He said: ‘Nothing prevented me from giving you an answer when you made the offer to me, except the fact that I had heard the Messenger of Allâh ﷺ speak of her, and I did not want to disclose the secret of the Messenger of Allâh ﷺ. If he had left her, then I would have married her.’” (Sahîh)

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3259 - أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْمُبَارَكِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي، عَنْ صَالِحٍ، عَنْ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي سَالِمُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ، يُحَدِّثُ، أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، حَدَّثَنَا قَالَ: يَعْنِي تَأَيَّمَتْ حَفْصَةُ بِنْتُ عُمَرَ مِنْ خُنَيْسِ بْنِ حُذَافَةَ السَّهْمِيِّ، وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَتُوُفِّيَ بِالْمَدِينَةِ، قَالَ عُمَرُ: فَأَتَيْتُ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَعَرَضْتُ عَلَيْهِ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتَ عُمَرَ، قَالَ: قُلْتُ: إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ، قَالَ: سَأَنْظُرُ فِي أَمْرِي، فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ ثُمَّ لَقِيَنِي، فَقَالَ: قَدْ بَدَا لِي أَنْ لَا أَتَزَوَّجَ يَوْمِي هَذَا، قَالَ عُمَرُ: فَلَقِيتُ أَبَا بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، فَقُلْتُ: إِنْ شِئْتَ زَوَّجْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتَ عُمَرَ، فَصَمَتَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَلَمْ يَرْجِعْ إِلَيَّ شَيْئًا، فَكُنْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَوْجَدَ مِنِّي عَلَى عُثْمَانَ، فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ، ثُمَّ «خَطَبَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَأَنْكَحْتُهَا إِيَّاهُ» فَلَقِيَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَقَالَ: لَعَلَّكَ وَجَدْتَ عَلَيَّ حِينَ عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ حَفْصَةَ فَلَمْ أَرْجِعْ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا، قَالَ عُمَرُ: قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يَمْنَعْنِي أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا فِيمَا عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ، إِلَّا أَنِّي قَدْ كُنْتُ «عَلِمْتُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَدْ ذَكَرَهَا، وَلَمْ أَكُنْ لِأُفْشِيَ سِرَّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَلَوْ تَرَكَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَبِلْتُهَا»

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We learn from this narration that the marriage of a widow would also be contracted by her guardian. She would not do it herself.