Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1910

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What Has Been Related About The Love Of A Parent For His Child

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Darussalam · Volume 4

25. Chapters On Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives From The Messenger Of Allāh ﷺ

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الجزء: 3 ¦ الصفحة: 473

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1910. 'Umar bin 'Abdul-'Aziz said: "A righteous woman, Khawlah bint Ḥakīm said: "The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ came out during the middle of the day, while holding one of the sons of his daughter in his arms. He was saying: 'You are what makes them stingy, cowardly and ignorant. And you are but from Raiḥānillāh.'"[1] (Da'if) [He said:] There are narrations on this topic from Ibn 'Umar, Al- Ash'ath, and Ibn Qais. [Abū 'Eisā said:] We do not know of the Hadīth of Ibn 'Uyainah from Ibrāhīm bīn Maisarah except through his narration. And we do not know of 'Umar bīn 'Abdul-'Azīz hearing from Khawlah.

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١٩١٠ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌ابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ ‌إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ مَيْسَرَةَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ ‌ابْنَ أَبِي سُوَيْدٍ يَقُولُ: سَمِعْتُ ‌عُمَرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ يَقُولُ: زَعَمَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ ‌خَوْلَةُ بِنْتُ حَكِيمٍ قَالَتْ: «خَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ وَهُوَ مُحْتَضِنٌ» أَحَدَ ابْنَيِ ابْنَتِهِ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ: إِنَّكُمْ لَتُبَخِّلُونَ وَتُجَبِّنُونَ وَتُجَهِّلُونَ، وَإِنَّكُمْ لَمِنْ رَيْحَانِ اللهِ وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، وَالْأَشْعَثِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ. حَدِيثُ ابْنِ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ مَيْسَرَةَ، لَا نَعْرِفُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ حَدِيثِهِ، وَلَا نَعْرِفُ لِعُمَرَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، سَمَاعًا مِنْ خَوْلَةَ.

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    [1] Meaning from the good fragrances which Allāh has bestowed upon us, or from His mercy.

Commentary

Love of children, if it transgresses the limits designated by the Sharī'ah, goads a man to act in a stingy, cowardly and ignorant manner, whereas, if it remains within the permissible limits, the children would be the harbingers of Allāh's mercy, sustenance and comfort, and an object of love and delight whom parents will caress and kiss. Thus, a person who keeps within the bounds set by the Sharī'ah remains clear of infirmities of character like stinginess, cowardice, ignorance and intemperance.