What Has Been Related About Disciplining The Son
Darussalam · Volume 4
25. Chapters On Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives From The Messenger Of Allāh ﷺJami at-Tirmidhi Darussalam English translation
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Source no. 1952 · Volume 4 · Page 452
Da‘if
ضعيف الضعيفة (١١٢١) ، نقد الكتاني ص (٢٠) // ضعيف الجامع الصغير (٥٢٢٧) //
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1952. Ayyūb bin Mūsā narrated from his father, from his grandfather, that the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: "There is no gift that a father gives his son more virtuous than good manners." (Ḍa'if) [Abū 'Eisā said:] This Ḥadīth is Gharīb, we do not know of it except as a narration of 'Ammār bin Abī 'Ammār Al-Khazzāz [and he is 'Ammār bin Ṣāliḥ bin Rustum Al-Khazzāz] and Ayyūb bin Mūsā is Ibn 'Amr bin Sa'eed bin Al-'Ās. To me, this Ḥadīth is Mursal.
١٩٥٢ - حَدَّثَنَا نَصْرُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجَهْضَمِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَامِرُ بْنُ أَبِي عَامِرٍ الْخَزَّازُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «مَا نَحَلَ» وَالِدٌ وَلَدًا مِنْ نَحْلٍ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ أَدَبٍ حَسَنٍ هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ. لَا نَعْرِفُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ حَدِيثِ عَامِرِ بْنِ أَبِي عَامِرٍ الْخَزَّازِ، وَهُوَ عَامِرُ بْنُ صَالِحِ بْنِ رُسْتُمَ الْخَزَّازُ، وَأَيُّوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى هُوَ: ابْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ، وَهَذَا عِنْدِي حَدِيثٌ مُرْسَلٌ.
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The most precious gift that a father can give his children is to train them with good manners and virtuous conduct. There is, therefore, no harm in being harsh with them in order to achieve that end.