What Has Been Related About Arguing
Darussalam · Volume 4
25. Chapters On Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives From The Messenger Of Allāh ﷺJami at-Tirmidhi Darussalam English translation
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Source no. 1995 · Volume 4 · Page 495
Da‘if
ضعيف، المشكاة (٤٨٩٢ / التحقيق الثاني) // ضعيف الجامع الصغير (٦٢٧٤) //
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1995. Ibn 'Abbās narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Do not argue with your brother, do not joke with him,[1] and do not make him a promise, only to not fulfill it.”(Da'if) [Abū 'Eisā said:] This Hadīth is [Hasan] Gharīb, we do not know of it except from this route. [To me, 'Abdul-Mālik is Ibn Bashīr].
١٩٩٥ - حَدَّثَنَا زِيَادُ بْنُ أَيُّوبَ الْبَغْدَادِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْمُحَارِبِيُّ ، عَنِ اللَّيْثِ وَهُوَ ابْنُ أَبِي سُلَيْمٍ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «لَا تُمَارِ أَخَاكَ، وَلَا تُمَازِحْهُ،» وَلَا تَعِدْهُ مَوْعِدًا فَتُخْلِفَهُ هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ. لَا نَعْرِفُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ. وَعَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ عِنْدِي هُوَ: ابْنُ أَبِي بَشِيرٍ.
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[1] With different wording, there are other routes for this Hadīth, see Abū Dāwūd no. 4800. See Aṣ-Ṣaḥīḥ no. 273 where it was graded Hasan by Shaikh Al-Albānī.
Traits of human character singled out in the Hadīth, if not guarded against,can become a source of pain and discomfort for others. Hence the Prophet'sﷺ advice to avoid them.