What Has Been Reported About Keeping Consistent Relations
Darussalam · Volume 4
25. Chapters On Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives From The Messenger Of Allāh ﷺJami at-Tirmidhi Darussalam English translation
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Source no. 2017 · Volume 5 · Page 17
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2017. ‘Aishah narrated: “I was not jealous of any wife of the Prophet ﷺ as I was jealous of Khadijah, and it was not because I saw her. It was only because the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ mentioned her so much, and because whenever he would slaughter a sheep, he would look for Khadijah’s friends to gift them some of it.” (Sahih) [Abū ‘Eisā said:] This Hadith is Hasan Gharib Sahih.
٢٠١٧ - حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو هِشَامٍ الرِّفَاعِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصُ بْنُ غِيَاثٍ ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ: «مَا غِرْتُ عَلَى أَحَدٍ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا غِرْتُ عَلَى خَدِيجَةَ،» وَمَا بِي أَنْ أَكُونَ أَدْرَكْتُهَا، وَمَا ذَاكَ إِلَّا لِكَثْرَةِ ذِكْرِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَهَا، وَإِنْ كَانَ لَيَذْبَحُ الشَّاةَ فَيَتَتَبَّعُ بِهَا صَدَائِقَ خَدِيجَةَ فَيُهْدِيهَا لَهُنَّ. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ غَرِيبٌ.
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If a man keeps good relations with someone in his life, he should continue these relations till the end. By the same token, he should give the relatives and friends of his expired wife and parents etc. The same consideration as he used to during their lifetime. This is what we would call consistency in behavior and constancy in character.