Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1005

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What Has Been Related About The Permission For Crying Over The Deceased

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Darussalam · Volume 2

8. The Chapters On Janā'iz From The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ

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الجزء: 2 ¦ الصفحة: 318

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1005. Jābir bin 'Abdullāh narrated: "The Prophet ﷺ took 'Abdur-Raḥmān bin 'Awf by the hand and went with him to his son Ibrāhīm. He found him in his last breaths, so he took him and put him on his lap and cried. 'Abdur-Raḥmān said to him: 'You cry? Didn't you prohibit (your followers) from crying?' He said: 'No. But I prohibited two foolish immoral voices: A voice during a calamity while clawing at one's face and tearing one's clothes, and Shaitān's scream.'" And there is more that is stated in the Hadīth. (Hasan) Abū 'Eisā said: This Hadīth is Hasan.

Arabic text

١٠٠٥ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌عَلِيُّ بْنُ خَشْرَمٍ ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا ‌عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ ، عَنِ ‌ابْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى ، عَنْ ‌عَطَاءٍ ، عَنْ ‌جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ ، قَالَ: «أَخَذَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِيَدِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ»، فَانْطَلَقَ بِهِ إِلَى ابْنِهِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ فَوَجَدَهُ يَجُودُ بِنَفْسِهِ، فَأَخَذَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَوَضَعَهُ فِي حِجْرِهِ فَبَكَى، فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ: أَتَبْكِي؟ أَوَلَمْ تَكُنْ نَهَيْتَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ؟ قَالَ: لَا، وَلَكِنْ نَهَيْتُ عَنْ صَوْتَيْنِ أَحْمَقَيْنِ فَاجِرَيْنِ؛ صَوْتٍ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَةٍ خَمْشِ وُجُوهٍ وَشَقِّ جُيُوبٍ، وَرَنَّةِ شَيْطَانٍ. وَفِي الْحَدِيثِ كَلَامٌ أَكْثَرُ مِنْ هَذَا. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ.

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    [1] Al-Isrā' 17:15.

Commentary

This narration proves that weeping in a low voice or shedding tears is not prohibited, but lamenting, wailing and crying are prohibited.