Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1087

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What Has Been Related About Looking At The Proposed Woman

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Darussalam · Volume 2

9. The Chapters (On Narrations Reported) On Marriage From The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ

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الجزء: 2 ¦ الصفحة: 383

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1087. Bakr bin ‘Abdullāh Al-Muzanī narrated that Al-Mughīrah bin Shu‘bah proposed to a woman, so the Prophet ﷺ said: “Look at her, for indeed that is more likely to make things better between the two of you.” (Ṣaḥīḥ) There are narrations on this topic from Muḥammad bin Maslamah, Jābir, Anas, Abū Ḥumaid, and Abū Hurairah. (Abū ‘Eisā said:) This Ḥadīth is Ḥasan. Some of the people of knowledge followed this Ḥadīth. They said that there is no harm in looking at her as long as he does not see anything unlawful from her. This is the saying of Aḥmad and Ishāq. And the meaning of his saying "More likely to make things better between the two of you" is; more likely to cause mutual love between the two of you.

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١٠٨٧ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌ابْنُ أَبِي زَائِدَةَ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي ‌عَاصِمُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ هُوَ الْأَحْوَلُ ، عَنْ ‌بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ، عَنِ ‌الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ «أَنَّهُ خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: انْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا، فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ» بَيْنَكُمَا. وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ، وَجَابِرٍ، وَأَبِي حُمَيْدٍ، وَأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، وَأَنَسٍ. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ. وَقَدْ ذَهَبَ بَعْضُ أَهْلِ الْعِلْمِ إِلَى هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ، وَقَالُوا: لَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا مَا لَمْ يَرَ مِنْهَا مُحَرَّمًا. وَهُوَ قَوْلُ أَحْمَدَ وَإِسْحَاقَ. وَمَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا، قَالَ: أَحْرَى أَنْ تَدُومَ الْمَوَدَّةُ بَيْنَكُمَا.

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As marriage is a contract for the whole life, therefore it should be given due consideration before going into it. According to most of the scholars and the Four A'immah, it is approved and lawful to see the spouse before betrothal.