Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1090

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What Has Been Related About Publicizing The Marriage

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Darussalam · Volume 2

9. The Chapters (On Narrations Reported) On Marriage From The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ

Jami at-Tirmidhi Darussalam English translation

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الجزء: 2 ¦ الصفحة: 385

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English translation

1090. Ar-Ruba’ bint Mu’awwidh said: “The morning after the consummation of my marriage, the Prophet ﷺ came and sat on my bed as far from me as you are sitting now, and our little girls started beating the Duff and reciting verses mourning my fathers[1] who had been killed in the battle of Badr. One of them said: ‘Among us is a Prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow.’ On that the Prophet ﷺ said: 'Stop saying this, and keep on saying what you were saying before.'" Abū 'Eisā said: This Hadīth is Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ.

Arabic text

١٠٩٠ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌حُمَيْدُ بْنُ مَسْعَدَةَ الْبَصْرِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌بِشْرُ بْنُ الْمُفَضَّلِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌خَالِدُ بْنُ ذَكْوَانَ، عَنِ ‌الرُّبَيِّعِ بِنْتِ مُعَوِّذٍ قَالَتْ: «جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيَّ غَدَاةَ بُنِيَ بِي، فَجَلَسَ عَلَى فِرَاشِي كَمَجْلِسِكَ مِنِّي، وَجُوَيْرِيَاتٌ لَنَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِدُفُوفِهِنَّ وَيَنْدُبْنَ مَنْ قُتِلَ مِنْ آبَائِي يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ»، إِلَى أَنْ قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ: وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: اسْكُتِي عَنْ هَذِهِ، وَقُولِي الَّتِي كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ قَبْلَهَا. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ.

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    [1] Her father and two uncles had been killed in the battle of Badr. By saying: “My fathers” she meant that her two uncles were as dear to her as her father was.

Commentary

When the little girls uttered an improper statement in their song the Prophet ﷺ stopped them there and then. This indicates that wrong, false and unlawful things should not be permitted or appreciated at any occasion.