Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1100

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What Has Been Related About Marrying Virgins

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Darussalam · Volume 2

9. The Chapters (On Narrations Reported) On Marriage From The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ

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الجزء: 2 ¦ الصفحة: 391

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1100. Jābir bin 'Abdullāh narrated: "I married a woman and went to the Prophet ﷺ, he said: 'O Jābir! Have you married?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'A virgin or a matron?' I said: 'A matron.' He said: 'Why didn't you marry a young girl, so that you may play with her and she with you?' I said: 'O Messenger of Allāh! 'Abdullāh (his father) died and left behind seven – or nine – daughters, so I have brought someone who can look after them.” (He said: “So he supplicated for me.”) (Ṣaḥīḥ) (He said:) There are narrations on this topic from Ubayy bin Ka'b and Ka'b bin 'Ujrah. (Abū 'Eisā said:) The Hadīth of Jābir (bin 'Abdullāh) is a Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ.

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١١٠٠ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌قُتَيْبَةُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ ، عَنْ ‌عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنْ ‌جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ: «تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً»، فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟ فَقُلْتُ: نَعَمْ، فَقَالَ: بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا؟ فَقُلْتُ: لَا، بَلْ ثَيِّبًا. فَقَالَ: هَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ؟ فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللهِ مَاتَ وَتَرَكَ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ تِسْعًا، فَجِئْتُ بِمَنْ يَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ، قَالَ: فَدَعَا لِي. وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ وَكَعْبِ بْنِ عُجْرَةَ. حَدِيثُ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ.

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It is clear from this narration that marrying a virgin is preferable as this marriage is lively and spirited. But marrying a widow or a divorced lady is also recommended if there is need of it for some higher cause.