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What Has Been Related About A Man Is Not To Propose To A Woman Who Has Been Proposed To By His Brother

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Darussalam · Volume 2

9. The Chapters (On Narrations Reported) On Marriage From The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ

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1135. Abū Bakr bin Al-Jahm narrated: "Abū Salamah bin 'Abdur-Raḥmān and I visited Fātimah bint Qais. She narrated to us that her husband had divorced her three times, and he did not leave her with anywhere to live nor any wealth. She said: 'He left ten Aqfīzah[1] for me with the son of his uncle: five were of barely, and five of wheat.' She said: 'I went to the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ and mentioned that to him.' She said: 'He said: "He is correct."[1] (She said:) 'So he ordered me to complete my 'Iddah in the home of Umm Sharīk. But then the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said to me: "Umm Sharīk's home is visited by the Muhājirūn, so spend your 'Iddah in the home of Ibn Umm Maktūm, for there you can remove your garments and he will not see you. Then when your 'Iddah is completed and someone proposes to you come to me." 'So when my 'Iddah completed Abū Jahm and Mu'āwiayh proposed to me.' She said: 'I went to the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ and mentioned that to him, and he said: "As for Mu'āwiayh, he is a man with no wealth, and as for Abū Jahm he is a man who is harsh with women." She said: 'Then Usāmah bin Zaid proposed to me, and he married me. So Allāh blessed me with Usāmah."(Ṣaḥīḥ) This Hadīth is Ṣaḥīḥ, Sufyān Ath-Thawrī reported a Hadīth similar to this from Abū Bakr bin Al-Jahm, but he added in it: "So the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said to me: 'Marry Usāmah."(And he mentioned the chain of narration for that.)

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١١٣٥ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌مَحْمُودُ بْنُ غَيْلَانَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌أَبُو دَاوُدَ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا ‌شُعْبَةُ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي ‌أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ قَالَ: «دَخَلْتُ أَنَا وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ» عَلَى ‌فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ ، فَحَدَّثَتْنَا أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا وَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ لَهَا سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةً، قَالَتْ: وَوَضَعَ لِي عَشَرَةَ أَقْفِزَةٍ عِنْدَ ابْنِ عَمٍّ لَهُ: خَمْسَةً شَعِيرًا، وَخَمْسَةً بُرًّا. قَالَتْ: فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لَهُ. قَالَتْ: فَقَالَ: صَدَقَ، قَالَتْ: فَأَمَرَنِي أَنْ أَعْتَدَّ فِي بَيْتِ أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ، ثُمَّ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: إِنَّ بَيْتَ أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ بَيْتٌ يَغْشَاهُ الْمُهَاجِرُونَ، وَلَكِنِ اعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ، فَعَسَى أَنْ تُلْقِي ثِيَابَكِ وَلَا يَرَاكِ، فَإِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُكِ فَجَاءَ أَحَدٌ يَخْطُبُكِ فَآذِنِينِي. فَلَمَّا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتِي خَطَبَنِي أَبُو جَهْمٍ وَمُعَاوِيَةُ، قَالَتْ: فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لَهُ، فَقَالَ: أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ، وَأَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَرَجُلٌ شَدِيدٌ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ. قَالَتْ: فَخَطَبَنِي أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ فَتَزَوَّجَنِي، فَبَارَكَ اللهُ لِي فِي أُسَامَةَ. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ. وَقَدْ رَوَاهُ سُفْيَانُ الثَّوْرِيُّ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ نَحْوَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ، وَزَادَ فِيهِ: فَقَالَ لِيَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ. ١١٣٥ (م) - حَدَّثَنَا ‌مَحْمُودٌ ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌وَكِيعٌ، عَنْ ‌سُفْيَانَ ، عَنْ ‌أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ - بِهَذَا.

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    [1] Aqfīzah is plural of Qafiz and it is a type of container.

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    [1] Meaning it was correct of him to not give her any wealth or a place to live. See Tuhfat Al-Ahwadhi.