Jami at-Tirmidhi

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What Has Been Related About It Being Disliked To Enter Upon Women Whose Husband's Are Absent

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Darussalam · Volume 2

10. The Chapters On Suckling

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الجزء: 2 ¦ الصفحة: 462

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1171. Uqbah bin 'Āmir narrated that the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: "Beware of entering upon women." So a man from the Anṣār said: "O Messenger of Allāh! What do you think about the Hamū? So he said: "The Hamū is death." (Sahīh) He said: There are narrations on this topic from 'Umar, Jābir, and 'Amr bin Al-'Ās. (Abū 'Eisā said:) The Hadīth of 'Uqbah bin 'Āmir is a Hasan Sahīh Hadīth. Regarding "entering upon women" what is disliked is similar to what has been related from the Prophet ﷺ: "A man and a woman are not secluded together except that the third of them is the Shaitān." And as for the meaning of his saying: "Al-Hamwu," the Al-Hamwu is the brothers of the husband, and it is as if it is disliked for him to be alone with her.

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١١٧١ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌قُتَيْبَةُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ ‌يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ ، عَنْ ‌أَبِي الْخَيْرِ ، عَنْ ‌عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ ؛ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «إِيَّاكُمْ وَالدُّخُولَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ»! فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، أَفَرَأَيْتَ الْحَمْوَ؟ قَالَ: الْحَمْوُ الْمَوْتُ. وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ عُمَرَ، وَجَابِرٍ، وَعَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ. حَدِيثُ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَامِرٍ حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ. وَإِنَّمَا مَعْنَى كَرَاهِيَةِ الدُّخُولِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ عَلَى نَحْوِ مَا رُوِيَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: لَا يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِامْرَأَةٍ إِلَّا كَانَ ثَالِثَهُمَا الشَّيْطَانُ. وَمَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ الْحَمْوُ، يُقَالُ: هُوَ أَخُو الزَّوْجِ، كَأَنَّهُ كَرِهَ لَهُ أَنْ يَخْلُوَ بِهَا.

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The word 'Al-Hamwu' stands for those male relatives of the husband who are not Mahram, and the marriage is lawful with them, like brothers and cousins or nephews of the husband etc.