Jami at-Tirmidhi

Hadith 1997

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What Has been Related Concerning Being Moderate In Loving And Hating

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Darussalam · Volume 4

25. Chapters On Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives From The Messenger Of Allāh ﷺ

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الجزء: 3 ¦ الصفحة: 532

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1997. Muḥammad bin Sirīn narrated from Abū Hurairah – and I think he (narrated it from the Prophet ﷺ) who said: “Love your beloved moderately, perhaps he becomes hated to you someday. And hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he becomes your beloved someday.” (Hasan) [Abū ‘Eisā said:] This Hadīth is Gharīb, we do not know of it with this chain except from this route. This Hadīth was reported from Ayyūb with a chain other than this. Al-Ḥasan bin Abī Jaʿfar reported it – but it is also a weak Hadīth – with a chain from ‘Alī, from the Prophet ﷺ. What is correct is from ‘Alī in Mawqūf form, [as his saying].

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١٩٩٧ - حَدَّثَنَا ‌أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ‌سُوَيْدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْكَلْبِيُّ ، عَنْ ‌حَمَّادِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ ‌أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ ‌مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ ، عَنْ ‌أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ - أُرَاهُ رَفَعَهُ - قَالَ: «أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا» مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا، وَأَبْغِضْ بَغِيضَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ حَبِيبَكَ يَوْمًا مَا. هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ لَا نَعْرِفُهُ بِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ إِلَّا مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ. وَقَدْ رُوِيَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ بِإِسْنَادٍ غَيْرِ هَذَا رَوَاهُ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ، وَهُوَ حَدِيثٌ ضَعِيفٌ أَيْضًا بِإِسْنَادٍ لَهُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ. وَالصَّحِيحُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ مَوْقُوفٌ قَوْلُهُ.

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Situations and circumstances keep on changing in a person's life. As a result, old friends become new adversaries and vice versa, and nobody knows what is in store for him in the future. It is, therefore, advisable not to go beyond the limits of moderation either in friendship or enmity.