Sunan Ibn Majah

Hadith 2089

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A Man Whose Father Orders Him To Divorce His Wife

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Darussalam · Volume 3

10. The ChaptersOn Divorce

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الحديث: 2089 ¦ الجزء: 1 ¦ الصفحة: 675

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2089. It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahmân that a man's father or mother – Shu'bah (one of the narrators) was not sure – ordered him to divorce his wife, and he made a vow that he would free one hundred slaves if he did that. He came to Abu Dardâ' while he was praying the Duha, and he was making his prayer lengthy, and he prayed between Zuhr and 'Asr. Then he asked him, and Abu Dardâ' said: "Fulfill your vow and honor your parents." Abu Ad-Dardâ' said: "I heard the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ say: '(Honoring) one's father may lead one to enter through the best of the gates of Paradise; so take care of your parents, (it is so, whether you take care of them) or not." (Hasan)

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2089 - حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ، عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، أَنَّ رَجُلًا أَمَرَهُ أَبُوهُ أَوْ أُمُّهُ - شَكَّ شُعْبَةُ - أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ، فَجَعَلَ عَلَيْهِ مِائَةَ مُحَرَّرٍ، فَأَتَى أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ، فَإِذَا هُوَ يُصَلِّي الضُّحَى وَيُطِيلُهَا، وَصَلَّى مَا بَيْنَ الظُّهْرِ وَالْعَصْرِ، فَسَأَلَهُ، فَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ: «أَوْفِ بِنَذْرِكَ، وَبِرَّ وَالِدَيْكَ» وَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ: سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، يَقُولُ: «الْوَالِدُ أَوْسَطُ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ، فَحَافِظْ عَلَى وَالِدَيْكَ أَوِ اتْرُكْ»

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a. Service and obedience to parents is a means to enter Paradise. b. If the parents command the child to do something which is Islamically permissible, it should be done even though the heart dislikes it. The parents, in the same way, should also care for the rights, needs and demands of the children. In the Name of Allāh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful